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Supposedly said, black and white is something that can't be put together. The same way with good and evil, the darkness and the angel. But it is long time ago. Now we live in the era of the all-rounder, like Mission Impossible it can be done. Black and white have a good bond when put together. Like humans, no one has 100% clean heart, certainly there are times when having the darkness in their heart, that's what makes people live. like fashion.
 

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Love Doesn't Always Mean to Possess

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“Love does not always mean to possess”

[Female point of view]

It’s a phrase that often appears on the classic opera or korea drama, when the person she loved doesn’t love her back. A lotta people argue, if we fall in love, we would be willing to sacrifice, even the one we love, doesn’t. For me, it’s nonsense, or you just cheer up yourself, no one in this world can survive with that viewpoint.

But, we are social beings, friends. We instinctively have a need to be loved, especially loved by the people we love. Imagine we are loved and pursued by people we don't love, our lives will be haunted by it, not even as beautiful as in fairy-tales.

There is time when we love a person, but he don't love us back. It is not that, we should be silent waiting for him to like us. 

We should remember,

In this life, time goes on. Who can stop the time, please raise your hands up bro! We can not wait for him to love us. Because until the end of the world he wouldn't know our feelings .
We had to show our feeling, a kind of care. Like: bring 5 pans of pizza every day? No, it will make him fat and feel sick, and draining your wallet also. Give a little attention, such as pushing a wheelchair when he sat in a wheelchair at school. No, this is not the time to behave like elementary school children. Give enough attention when he requires, for example he said: “I'm going to buy a birthday cake for my friend”, you offer: “Want me to accompany?”. That's kind lah, I'm not an expert in terms of approach, do not ask me.

When in a long time he did not realize as well, there is no harm when we express our feelings to him, like to tell him “I LOVE YOU, WANNA BE MY BOYFRIEND?”. No, not like that. You'll be laughed. Let's just say, if you had been watching him and love him. If he had no response or action behind, that means you have to let him go. You may not force him to love you. Follow him anywhere at any time. What the hell, he'll think that you're unemployed and he'll probably pull a long face to you.

Love must be accompanied by the chemistry of the two sides. If he's already show that he don't like you, you must learn to forget. Don't think our lives empty without those we love, don't set the melancholy song, don't try to daydream about him. Or then you can commit suicide. Haha.

We may not be able to love something that does not belong to us. It actually just makes matters worse. A sense of envy or jealousy when he is close to another woman. It is just going to add to our sin, which could make life more devastated. Fill your days with activity, and little by little forget him. And believe God has a wonderful plan for us. Not that means, what who we like is the mate from God.

Mate is not going anywhere, friends!

but where? hahahahaha!


Here is a song for you guys who are heartbroken. I really love it, enjoy!

"Baby, I Love You" by Tiffany Alvord Lyric

There are three words, that I've been dying to say to you
Burns in my heart, like a fire that ain't goin' out
There are three words, & I want you to know they are true...
I need to let you know

I wanna say I love you, I wanna hold you tight
I want your arms around me & I, want your lips on mine
I wanna say I love you, but, babe I'm terrified
My hands are shaking, my heart is racing
Cause it's something I can't hide, it's something I can't deny
So here I go...
Baby I lo-o-o-ve you

I've never said, these words to anyone, anyone at all
Never got this close, cause I was always afraid I would falll
But now i know, that I'll fall right in-to your arms...
Don't ever let me go

I wanna say I love you, I wanna hold you tight
I want your arms around me & I, want your lips on mine
I wanna say I love you, but, babe I'm terrified
My hands are shaking, my heart is racing
Cause it's something I can't hide, it's something I can't deny
So here I go...
Baby I lo-o-o-ve you

Take it in, breathe the air
What is there to really fear
I can't contain, what my heart's sayin'
I gotta say it out loud...

I wanna say I love you, I wanna hold you tight
I want your arms around me & I, want your lips on mine
I wanna say I love you, but, babe I'm terrified
My hands are shaking, my heart is racing
Cause it's something I can't hide, it's something I can't deny
So here I go...
Baby I lo-o-o-o-ve you